My Mistakes

Moving on to a new relationship immediately without taking time out to heal your inner self is unfair to the other person and to yourself

There were periods of time that I overused alcohol to forget what I was struggling with

Not taking time to find the right therapist for you

Not coping with emotions at the times that you should be and learning how to hide the emotions you do feel, you might learn to become good at hiding your emotions but whatever you don't deal with at the time will come back to you at times you really may not want to deal with them and the emotions may be even worse than they used to be because you learned to hide them for so long, letting emotions manifest within you for long periods of time is not good for you

Not taking care of your mental health and it ends up effecting your physical health